When I was in elementary school, it was not such a good idea to
show up on March 17th, wearing anything other than green. All
three hundred some students would take much pleasure in delivering
their hardest, twisting pinch. This odd practice taught me, at a tender
age, that you get pinched if you're a nonconformist. I also found out
that pinching gives you bruises, so you actually can have some green
on you, if you forget to wear it.
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Pinching those not wearing green on St. Patrick's Day is a long
standing American tradition, having really nothing to do with St. Pat.
It does, however, involve the Irish and Leprechauns. It's thought
that the pinching started in the early 1700s, in the Massachusetts
colony. It was believed, if you wore green, it made you invisible to
the Leprechauns, who were known to pinch anyone they could see.
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My mother, never big on holidays or traditions, certainly did not
promote the "wearin' o' the green". WE don't WEAR green on
St. Patrick's Day. She would say, with more than a little disdain.
WE'RE not Irish! Well, it only took a few years of coming home black,
blue, and green from school on St. Paddy's, for me to learn to look
lively, and be sure to wear green on March 17th. To this day, I
proudly wear, not only green, but my favorite shamrock brooch, as
well.
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The amusing thing is, while I was doing genealogical research
several years back, I found that my paternal line, although
originating in Scotland, spent several hundred years in Ireland
before migrating to America. I also found a paternity issue in my
maternal line, which proved to be quite interesting. As it turns out,
my mother is, after all, of Irish descent, with a little Cherokee
thrown in for good measure.
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So... does this mean you have to take the Zhivago hat off?
ReplyDeleteOh, wait... that might work out nicely. ;)
Pinching doesn't sound like fun! I might try it though, on someone else!
ReplyDeleteCJ xx
Ah, those ubiquitous Scots-Irish!
ReplyDeleteI remember the pinching. But the least bit of green, visible anywhere on one's person was enough to keep the pinchers at bay. I like green socks, myself.
Beautiful photo!
I remember once wearing orange on St Patrick's day as a kid, and someone yelled at me. How silly is that??
ReplyDeleteThe pinching is a wee bit disturbing...but the wearing of the green isn't so bad in the end, I suppose! I'm part Irish (a very small part) too.
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ReplyDeleteSomething about St. Patty's Day that turns us all into Irish lads and lassies.
ReplyDeleteAnd, if we scratch hard enough, somewhere, somehow, we are all connected.
I look forward to corned beef and cabbage, and coffee with Irish whiskey and whipped cream. Food will provide all the punctuating marks for this occasion.
A "quite interesting" paternity issue, you say? That sounds intriguing but ... probably best left under your Dr. Zhivago hat.
ReplyDeletealways wear green on st patty's day...had some vicious pinches as a kid...one of the local pubs dyes their bagels green for their sandwiches which makes for some intersting returns later on...the holiday that keeps on giving...
ReplyDeleteHahaaa! Isn't that interesting! Well, my grandmother was the exact opposite--we HAD to wear something green. It was "the law." "Sure'n you're NOT going out like that, without any green, now are ye'? Hmph."
ReplyDeleteMy mom told me that in Scotland, as a little girl, (a little Catholic girl, at that) she would walk home from school, and some of the Protestant kids screamed at her, "Dirty, dirty Papist." She wasn't upset, because she said she had no idea what they meant, but she figured it couldn't be good.
To this day, I always try to find something green I can put on--I have some very green earrings that I get out once a year...
I remember the pinching at school, ours was a mixed boys and girls school, so back then a few pinches from the right fella's was fun.
ReplyDeleteMy granddad's are both Irish, Killarney and Dublin respectively.
The Irish have a unique outlook on life..
For the great Gaels of Ireland
Are the men that God made mad,
For all their wars are merry
And all their songs are sad.
G.K. Chesterton
Vicki, ah, yes, I'll be wearin' me green woolly socks!
ReplyDelete...and if it's still this cold, my Zhivago hat, as well!
ReplyDeleteMy kids love the pinching day stuff despite the fact that they've not one inch of Irish in them -- although I'm wondering, now, given your story and the fact that my maternal grandmother is Scotch/English...
ReplyDeleteAlthough I have Irish in my heritage, looking at me, you wouldn't notice. I don't believe that you have to be of a certain ethnicity to honor holidays. I love celebrating all holidays. It's the American way. So, I'll be wearing green on St. Patrick's Day.
ReplyDeleteI never heard of the pinching practice. Good thing because that hurts. Cheers Willow!!
I never knew the origin of the pinching tradition, but always avoided it by wearing green. You could always pin your shamrock brooch on your Zhivago hat...kill 2 birds with one stone (from yesterday's post : )
ReplyDeleteWe have a plant like the one you have in your photo. It just started blooming the pretty white flowers. I think it's called a shamrock plant...Bach would know : )
Being an American mutt, you can just go with the assumption that you have a little bit of everything somewhere down the line :) I like your spin on wearing the green relevent to giving in to conformity
ReplyDeleteYes, Cat, it's a shamrock! It loves to be outside in the shade of the patio during the summer months. It's one of my faves.
ReplyDeleteAh, yes. I remember the pinching well... still wear green on St. Patrick's Day, too.
ReplyDeleteMy latest tradition from the past few years is to spend the afternoon with my Irish mom having tea & cookies whilst watching QVC's St. Paddy's Day special..ha! the only time of the year I can stand to be in the same room with the television on for more than an hour..
Slainté!
It's a hat?
ReplyDeleteI thought it was your hair.
Yes, Peter, it's a fur HAT! ((giggles))
ReplyDeleteMy youngest son was born on St Paddy's Day so we've always decorated for his birthday with an Irish theme. I just bought the plates and cups for this year's party....Kiss Me I'm Irish.
ReplyDeleteThis pinching must be an American thing - I don't remember it from school at all!
ReplyDeleteYour shamrock brooch sounds lovely as is the photo of your very healthy-looking Shamrock!
Jeanne
well, and it's wonderful to be seeing a bit of the green showing over at the manor, lady willow - and seems we share the little mix of scottish, irish and cherokee roots -
ReplyDeletealways wonderful visiting the manor!
As a matter of fact, I am not going to wear anything green on March 17th:).
ReplyDeleteBut on the other way I would love to have a pint of a good green beer at an Irish pub that night!
So is my mom! Irish and Cherokee, that is... but she's always let it be known from the rooftops, very proud of both.
ReplyDeleteSo is my mom! Irish and Cherokee, that is... but she's always let it be known from the rooftops, very proud of both.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is Irish one day every year. We Irish welcome all ye into the fold, don't forget the green beer!
ReplyDeleteCan you then imagine the confusion of my 9 year-old self when I came to the US and showed up in pink on St. Pat's Day? My knowledge of English was very limited, and I did all I could to hold my tears in. When I went home I told my parents that everyone hated me and I never wanted to go to school again. My dad took me to school the next morning where he proceeded to kiss my teacher's hand, to my immense mortification, probably thinking that his outdated European customs would make a difference.
ReplyDeleteBut, boy was I relieved when I found out that everyone liked me and the pinching wasn't personal.
I never really understood this as a kid, so was pinched quite a lot...but regardless if the "pincher" was wearing th' green or not...they got pinched back worse, heh, heh...
ReplyDeleteThanks for the history on this :)
In grammar school students would pinch and spank if there was no green visible on someone. You are so right about learning early on the treatment for being an individual and not following the rest of the sheep. Smile.
ReplyDeleteTis an Irish Blessing I'm sending to a Pretty Lady. My family did the same Started in Leiden Holland, they had bad times then to Scotland, still have an Uncle there, to Ireland to America.
ReplyDeleteCeltic for sure.
I thought it was cause they hated any one wearing Orange.Learn everything at the Manor. My best yvonne PS I got a pinch in Rome LOL
yvonne
Don't know if there's any irish in me. English, yes but we have only gone back to the 1500s so who knows. supposedly some Scottish on my dad's side but that's from the name only as we can't get farther back than about three or four generations due to a serious family split sometime around the civil war. Regardless, I always forget to wear green. Usually don't even realize what day it is.
ReplyDeletehow did your ma miss the memo that on st. patrick's day everyone is irish!
ReplyDeletethanks for the background info on the pinching bit!
and leah,yeah, not a good idea to wear orange on st. patrick's day - unless you want to disturb the peace accord!
when I was young we'd really only pinch those in orange, knowing where their sympathies lie
I'm an Irish wannabe... altho IRL I'm German/Norwegian/English... My husband is Irish/English, so I guess I am by marriage. We've been over there twice and fell in love with the place. Gorgeous. If I didn't like green before, I definitely do NOW!
ReplyDeleteI got pinched a lot as kid... and not just on St. Patrick's day. My siblings were just that way.
Green doesn't work with my skin tone so I'm glad it is only once a year!
ReplyDeleteI never heard of pinching someone if they weren't wearing green around here...I'll have to ask my kids if they suffered through that...I am partly Irish but no one ever made a big deal about wearing green on St. Patricks Day...Now going out and drinking green beer was a different thing:)
ReplyDeleteLeave it to the Puritans to put the pinch on the non-conforming.
ReplyDeleteIsn't there an Irish saying that everyone is Irish on St.Patty's Day?
I love the notion of everyone being Irish on St. Paddy's Day!
ReplyDeleteI had no idea the pinching tradition, which I remember well from grammar school, went back so far. I am already flying my Snoopy shamrock flag and will be wearing green, just in case, on the 17th.
ReplyDeleteyes, I have memories of being younger and my 'fear' of going to school without something green on-- the fear of being pinched all day-- I always managed to find something green.
ReplyDeleteAh those Irish, they've found their way into many a blood line.
ReplyDeleteWith Irish, Scottish and English in my bloodlines I'm pretty much open to any celebration.
Wilow,
ReplyDeleteAlthough I do admire you under the the Zhivago hat, this new pic is quite fetching.
I must admit that I never heard of the pinching tradition for the non-green-wearers. Being French, or so I thought, I more than likely wore orange or anything but green.
Which leads me to reveal the gleanings from my genealogy research; The frenchmen in my lineage had a penchant for those classy Irish lasses and it turns out that I'm more Irish than anything else; 75% at last look. Throw in a smidgeon of Scott and a dram of Brit, and that leaves precious little french.
So here's to the wearin' o' the green to ya lassie.
rel
Thank you, Rel. xx
ReplyDeleteThe picture's not exactly new, it was taken last summer.
Gee, I never heard of the pinching tradition. (That's not nice!) One of my St. Patrick's traditions is to put green food coloring in the beer, even though I'm not Irish. Love those shamrocks!!!
ReplyDeleteI don't remember this tradition until I was, myself, a teacher. I learned to keep a green brooch in my desk to protect me!
ReplyDeleteIsn't everyone a little bit Irish on St. Paddy's Day?
Willow,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the info on the pinch issue on St. Pat's Day. Yes, I believe St. Pat's is for all to enjoy, even green beer! Good of you, my lass, to set the record straight, as we left our cheers to our blessed Saint. A bit o' green to yee, my sweet.
I remember all that pinching...there was 'pinching to grow an inch' on birthdays in the schoolyard too. I wonder if anyone pinches anymore...might be out of fashion!
ReplyDeleteWow willow, another American custom I knew nothing about! Fascinating green insight, thanks.
ReplyDeleteTruly it is amazing what we find out while doing genealogy. I love it. Can't wait to see that show on Friday about ancestry. My gramma would not let us out of her house without 'the wearing of the green'.
ReplyDeleteQMM
I'm Irish but I never wear green on St. Patrick's Day. I'm too much of a rebel. That, and I'm Scots-Irish. I'm up too :)
ReplyDeleteYep. I remember those days, too. I think I did my share of hunting for who was greenless if I was. No sense in taking punches alone. When you're married to a Jamie Reilly, you really CAN'T get away with not wearin' the green. :)
ReplyDeleteoh, memories...
ReplyDeletelol...
i remember when one poor lad showed the elastic rim of green on his briefs...just so he could avoid the pinchy wrath of his peers.
what were we thinking, back then?
I made the mistake of reading the comments before writing my comments and now all I can think of is the Zhivago hat...very interesting discussion but I digress..ah yes wearing green --have a wee bit of irish in me along with italian, french,english, german, american indian-basically heinz 57--so wearing of the green wasn't that important until I made the mistake of wearing orange(not intentionally--before I was Jackson you could call me clueless among other things) to school one year on St Paddy's day--oh boy that wasn't good--I received a lesson very quickly..ah the memories of childhood --happy tt!
ReplyDeleteI grew up hearing of my Irish relations in Dublin, how my great-grandfather Will left the Emerald isle and came to America to do whatever came his way--laying tracks for the railroad and finally mining in the Black Hills. Then later I learned that his forebears had actually come over with William of Orange! They weren't really Celts at all.
ReplyDeleteRest assured, I do not wear orange on St. Pat's day. Horrors. And a lot of time I don't wear green because I forget what date it is. I'm not good with dates.
But I did know you were wearing a hat, for Pete's sake!
Wow, I'm glad they didn't have that tradition at Oxford High.
ReplyDeleteWe had Dippy Day instead
Never heard of this tradition on this side of 'the pond'. Here it's 'a pinch and a punch for the 1st of the month'. We'll have to think again.
ReplyDeleteBisou, Cro.
Sorry for your childhood bruises. IF we get some rain, the shamrocks in my garden should show a leaf or two.
ReplyDeleteNot a drop of Irish in me...yet I'm often asked if I am Irish?
ReplyDeleteCan also Irish dance the pants off any other geriatric on the planet
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Pinching - not a tradition here is Oz. I might start it this year. My wife, as they say is bog irish and makes a distinction between the Irish and the rest of the world. I too am 50% Irish but I hold my 25% Italian side more closely - its a better story.
ReplyDeleteI was in New York on March 17 1988 and was amazed. Everyone was in green - office workers, kids, white people, black people, police, shopkeepers .... I left 34th Street at about 9:30 am to walk New York. The St Partick's Day parade had begun. I ended up at the Museum of Modern Art for a few hours only to emerge at about 4pm to find the end of the march still winding its way past Central Park. It felt like I was the only one without a green embellishment in the city.
An rud is annamh is iontach.
ReplyDeleteThese old traditions fascinate me. Great, informative post.
ReplyDeleteLike lots of the other English in this box I'd never heard of the pinching thing. All I ever noticed was big parties going on in Irish pubs (and I did go to one once...much fun).
ReplyDeletex
We honour Saint Patrick's day here too in Australia.
ReplyDeleteMy husband whose mother was an O'Brien particularly.
When I was a child all Catholic schools marched through the city streets on St Patrick's Day. Not any more. Australia has its Anglo Celtic origins. Many of our ancestors come from Irish stock.
The trouble for me is that I do not own a single item of clothing that is green. My husband only has one green tie.
I liked this post about the color green. We don't celebrate St Patricks Day over here, so I haven't suffered any bruises from pinching... What a strange tradition... I love green, but I don't really wear green that often. It's more like I am a huge fan of things that are green and that grow... :) /Jo.
ReplyDeleteLittle Hat, the beauty of our mixed heritages is that we can choose the better story! I love it, don't you?
ReplyDeleteI love St. Patrick's Day. When I was an art teacher in an elementary school, the kids drew Leprechauns. In Huntington there is a St. Patrick's Church, so we have the second largest parade in NY after the one in NYC. Many of the same groups march here the Sunday before the 17th. Everyone wears green, even a Sicilian descendant like me. I never heard about the pinching.
ReplyDelete'you get pinched if you're a nonconformist' - such a great line for a sampler pillow.
ReplyDeletela Willow-pillow, yes? ;-)
Hello Willow,
ReplyDeleteThank goodness, I was blissfully unaware of the pinching aspect of St. Patrick's Day. Probably didn't know what day it was either! But it seems all our American cousins are related to our Irish cousins!
The only green I own is my green woolly sweater, the one that rings in the winter months, to my disdain, but usually by the time it arrives, I am more than relishing it's prickly comfort!!!
ReplyDeleteBut by the 17th, I hope it is long ushered away!!!
Ouch - I remember the pinching all too well. Love your picture - so pretty. So very green. I have Irish in my background but I usually forget to wear green on St. Paddy's day. Very nice posting sweetie. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteWhile green is not my best color, I am of Irish, English and Scottish descent and I do try to remember to wear green and my various shades of green eye shadow...and I will indulge in a few shots of good Irish whiskey. I used to make the boys green eggs and ham when they were little!! They were never impressed with that!!
ReplyDeleteWow, I'm really happy we don't do the pinching thing where I come from. It doesn't sound nice at all. I'm going to have to wear green on St Patrick's day from now on, just to be safe.
ReplyDeleteThe pinchers had such zeal when they pinched! Grade school had such a learning curve....
ReplyDeleteThis was a great story! I admire your economy with words. It made me remember a day when I was visiting a highschool friend in Boston - being the self-absorbed, dramatically depressed young artists that we were, St. Patrick's day simply didn't register with us - when the bus we were on filled with boisterous dressed-up people drunken revellers we simply thought the world had gone mad. It was kind of an exciting thought - then we noticed everyone was wearing green..
ReplyDeleteI enjoy a glass of Irish coffee, movies set in Ireland (so green!), potatoes, Enya's music, soda bread, cabbage but no corned beef being vegetarian.............oh almost forgot, AND my wonderful husband of Irish descent, just wish his grandfather hadn't dropped the O from O'Sullivan! For a true-blooded English gal I might deserve a medal for putting up with 46 years of blarney perhaps, ha! ha!
ReplyDeleteLovely post Willow - wishing you shamrocks and gentle pinches come St. Paddy's day!
I must confess I never knew about the wearing of The Green let alone the Pinching.I must go A-Pinching down my local Irish Club on Paddy's Day.Although I must also remember not to wear Orange or else I will be Pinched (or Punched) in Return!
ReplyDeleteTo the best of my knowledge, the Irish don't even consider green to be lucky, but we still do it around here! I'd never heard of the pinching ritual, although my mother-in-law has this crazy, "Pinch, punch, first-of-the-month" ritual. I stay well out of her way for that.
ReplyDeleteHave you ever seen the film, "The Flight of the Doves", Willow? Cue it up for the 17th!
Kat
Kat,I just looked up The Flight of the Doves. There's the 1971 version and it looks like there's a remake in 1994. Which one do you recommend?
ReplyDeleteI am Irish and my son actually plays for them but I refuse to wear the green out of my stubborn response to all of the havoc St. Patrick created that they don't tell us about in the history books at school. I get my Irish panties in a bunch every year!
ReplyDeleteI still have my little girl shamrock jewelery. The bracelet is gone, but I wear the pendant from the necklace still...the prettiest enameled shamrock with a pearl center set in gold. It channels so many things: childhood, a gift from my mother, my mother's insistence I wear it every March 17th, some sort of protective amulet...I dunno. I just know I always wear it and it's a longstanding tradition now.
ReplyDeleteI had forgotten the pinching at school, but "yes," that too. And now that my mind has "gone there,"--my mother always kept a shamrock plant in her kitchen window.
I usually meet a friend in Annapolis on that day. She's the Irish. I'm the Anglo-Scot. We make sure we eat corned beef and cabbage and soda bread and hot tea. Another tradition.
I also just put up a lovely photograph of shamrocks as my screensaver yesterday. It captures the mixed shades they come in, including burgundy. It was so cheery, it set the tone for the day...and the month.
P.S. My husband wears enough green for the whole family, leprechauns and faeries included!
ReplyDeleteGrowing up in a predominately Irish Catholic community I am certainly familiar with the wearin 'o' the green and the pinching tradition you write about.
ReplyDeleteI was never subjected to the pinching at school however. First because I attended a parochial school where every one dressed in navy blue plaid uniforms and secondly because it caught it gave the Nuns another excuse to smack knuckles with their rulers, and that was worst then the pinch by far.
But, I certainly got my share away from school. I enjoyed your walk down memory lane. And, thank you for taking my green stroll with me as well.
haha Great finding and wearing green on St. Patrick day is awesome...
ReplyDeleteThe pinching was not fun.....only if you were the pincher...ha
ReplyDeletelove the picture...very pretty!
the Irish bloodline is quite strong no matter how far removed one may be. The Irish ARE a hardy, lovable and yet irritating bunch of peeps! The DNA is inescapable! That's a good thing!
ReplyDeleteoh...dang, i forgot to mention that I did not know where that pinching thing came from, either. thanks for the tidbit!!
ReplyDeleteI've had many people ask me over the years if I had Irish blood and I always said no. Now I can say yes!
ReplyDeleteHated those pinches, too! Do they still do that in grade school?
My maternal grandmother, who's grandfather was an Irish immigrant,passed on to me a little shamrock brooch. She wore it with pride on St.Patrick's Day, and I do now as well.There are still parts of Australia that celebrate with a St. Patrick's Day march,my state, South Australia is one of them. Better we remain ignorant about the pinching though- a march is just too much temptation!
ReplyDeleteI'm already scanning my kids' wardrobes for St. Patrick's day clothes. I think we're pretty much set on some green shirts & socks & hair bows. Wouldn't want any pinches going on!!
ReplyDeleteBeing the contrarian that I've always been, I insisted on wearing orange to school on St. Pat's Day. Although I've traced several of my lines back to England, I've never found an Irish link.
ReplyDeletei had no idea about this tradition 0 ha! those leprachauns!
ReplyDeletei wonder if thats related at all to a pinch and a punch for the first of the month
Agree fully with you Willow. For me there's no better way to create a sense of belonging than if the story is dramatic. Mine is all about French conmen and Italian peasants, death and survival. Of course the Irish story of the 1860s is also pretty dramatic.
ReplyDeleteI look forward to learning more about yours.