Sunday, July 12, 2009

facial drama

My sister and I had a great visit this weekend. We spent hours happily chatting about any and everything. Plenty of time, of course, was devoted to the discussion of political, religious and social issues. Then, we moved on to more pressing and intriguing topics, like eyebrows.


Can you believe there are those who still like to tweeze and pencil their brows into that 1950's style raised arch? It's so severe and brings to mind the Vampira look. Scary. My youngest sister tried to dye hers at home once. The result was the woolly-caterpillar brow. Equally as scary.

In the case of brow makeup, as we get older, perhaps less is more, unless, of course, you are trying to achieve that John-Crawford-Mommy-Dearest look. Eyebrows do set the stage as far as the face is concerned, don't you think? The wrong look can be very misleading.


Take the case of poor Uncle Leo on Seinfeld. Remember that hilarious episode where his eyebrows were singed off and Elaine draws them on with a magic marker? He then visits his doctor, who is convinced he has an anger problem. It really is all about the brows.


Just as bad, are the over-tweezed-Gloria-Swanson brows. They can do just the polar opposite, as far as facial drama, by putting you in a constant state of dazed, non-emotion. The "I don't have much going on upstairs" look is not always so attractive, either.


Have you ever been forced to participate in brow intervention? Someone near and dear to you has a severe case of tadpole brow? Or maybe even a case of the dreaded unibrow? It's not always easy, but our loved ones must be helped. WT, left to his own devices, develops a sorry case of Hugh-Griffith-Arab-sheik-Ben-Hur brows. He tells me he wants to wax, twist them and start a trend. Well, we'll see about that.

56 comments:

  1. That Seinfeld episode sounds really funny, even the pic made me smile.I haven't given my own eyebrows /facial apperance much thought through my life(if I'm still alive when I wake up in the mornings ,then I'm good to go) but when you study them (eyebrows) they are strangest things aren't they?

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  2. John L. Lewis never had anything on me. I have to get my eyebrows cut every time I get my hair cut. In Japan, the barbers would gather coworkers around to watch and politely laugh at the barber cutting or thinning my eyebrows.

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  3. LOL! This was great. I don't know about my eyebrows. I just don't do much with them, but then they don't seem to need much. Maybe I am in denial and need an intervention!

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  4. In error, I once said to my friend Mike that he might consider trimming his eyebrows as it would enhance his blue eyes. They were such long brows that they hung heavily into his face. Even though it was in private and just between us, he was deeply offended. I'm not gonna ever go there again.

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  5. oh willow you touched a nerve, i went for a haircut and the two women who know my hair (and me) were gone and i was left with she-who-knows-how-to-cut "someone's hair" -but-not-mine. she forgot my eyebrows. so what do i do? shave them - tres dangereuse!!!! leave them - ditto - my kid's 'll be scared. oh no. who knew the power of the eyebrow?!!!have a peaceful pencil-thin day. steven

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  6. Oh, what a great post! Loved the Seinfeld clip, too. Mine are so light, especially in the summer, that I've often thought of doing something with them. Now I'm really afraid!

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  7. Tadpole brows? Apt description. that's me. I've always just let them be like everything else on my body. But I gotta say when I had them waxed last spring, I loved the way they looked. I'm gonna have to do that again.

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  8. When I was a teenager I sent away for eyebrow stencils and had fun making new brows...like the movie stars. I actually had great brows but it was fun to mess about!

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  9. ha. too funny. let T at me once...way too painful. had a friend in the 4th grade who got a hold of his dads razor and accidentallly shaved his off...took forever to grow back. terribly funny!

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  10. Ah, eyebrows for all tastes, high brows and low brows. Thank heavens that all that doesn't apply to those of us over a certain age. We just worry about all hair.

    This was great.

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  11. Ha, funny stuff...mine just turn gray and all willy-nilly. Your new header is too cool...if you aren't a web/blog designer, you oughta be.

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  12. Well I don't tweeze anymore, but waxing is a killer as well, I had started to do the threading thing, but I swear they got thicker. Great Post though, you know someone intimately if you can tell them their eyebrows need an intervention.

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  13. Well I don't tweeze anymore, but waxing is a killer as well, I had started to do the threading thing, but I swear they got thicker. Great Post though, you know someone intimately if you can tell them their eyebrows need an intervention.

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  14. willow !
    tadpole brow ? that's a HOOT !
    i have never heard that before but what a perfect description.

    i have blond brows...i am always working on them.
    trying to find the perfect color to fill them in........
    who am i kidding ? fill WHAT in?
    i have to create them all together.
    i can't tell you how many times i have had to start all over, and wash them off, because they have come out too dark.
    i could SCREAM!!!

    xx

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  15. I love Seinfeld. I've watched every episode so many times that all I have to do is read the tv guide description of one of them and I immediately start laughing. Like right now, thinking of poor Uncle Leo, literally painted into a corner by Elaine.

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  16. These are a few of my favorite things. Love your new title block!

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  17. Definitely, less is more as we age.

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  18. My least fav is the too thin brows where they just look like little lines.

    This was a hilarious post! I would laugh til I cried but I have no laughing tears left after this weekend! tee-hee! :)

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  19. I may not know about eyebrows and the tweezing, waxing, drawing, etc, but I think the more natural you can go is better.
    We had a girl at our high school when I was going that actually shaved hers off and got eyebrow tattoos in their place >.<
    Trust me, don't do that! It looked so horrible.

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  20. You are so funny! I used to have more brows than I wanted. So the tweezers whipped out.

    Today, I wish those tweezers had stayed in the back of the drawer!! I've always admired those with beautifully arched eyebrows. Life just isn't fair.... ;-)

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  21. I thought the caught Ted the Unibrow at his mountain cabin ... guess I need to watch the news more often.

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  22. Bill, no, the Unibrow is still on the loose.

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  23. haha...may I never fall victim to any of the above....

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  24. Unibrows and bushy - the worst combination! xv.

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  25. Elke Von Freudenberg (eyebrow specialist to the Stars) blogged about the horrendous plucking job Susan Boyle got after her first Britain's Got Talent appearance. 'Too thin, too straight, no arch.' said Elke. And I reckon she's right Willow - Susan looks like one scared funky-monkey these days. Oh & BTW Elke's business motto is 'Your eyebrows should be as fashionable as you are!' - yeah right.
    Millie ^_^

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  26. I never thought much about my eyebrows, until I noticed tht one of my eyebrows was growing straight upwards like a flagpole. My barber had to trim it off.

    Yesterday, I also noticed they're turning white at 62. Yep, now I'm now more aware of that hairy part of my face.

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  27. I tweeze and pencil! What's wrong with that?

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  28. I draw a black-line bird to connect my eyebrows when I want to channel Frida Kahlo...If someone comes into the studio, they aren't quite sure whats off. Hot topic! - Jayne

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  29. I don't believe you, Dave!!

    Hello Willow,

    Some people are inordinately proud of their brows. Our Chancellor, Alistair Darling, and one of his predecessors, Denis (now Lord) Healey, spring to mind. The satirical TV programme, Spitting Images was merciless about Healey's brows, which were continually shedding dandruff!!

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  30. Seinfeld was such a great show! Almost anything absurd that happens in your life can be found in an episode of Seifeld!

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  31. My life changed with the little Benefit eyebrow shaping eyebrow set. Wax, powder and a brush and easy enough even I can do it. An instant facelift according to the stars who know such things. The bigger and more arched the better in my opinion. xx

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  32. IMHO, people, especially women, should stay away from trends and just tweeze away the excess to allow their natural brow to frame their face. Although if you happen to have a unibrow, you might want to tweeze a bit more in between so that they're actually separated! Just saying. ;-)

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  33. This is a truly fabulous post in every way imaginable.

    Just recently I began to use just a little bit of eyebrow pencil. Just a LITTLE bit, I promise!

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  34. i love this post, willow!! i fall into the totally over tweezed category and use a bit of eye brow powder to compensate. i wanted to be twiggy when i was young. hee hee

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  35. You started my day off with a chuckle...come on, I live in Iowa, do eyebrows matter here...and why are they there anyway??? We must seem odd to the animal world...like the cockatoo, whose head feathers raise when irritated...so do the eyebrows.

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  36. Never decide to tweeze after any inhaled or swallowed adult substances legal or otherwise ... put down the tweezer and step away from the mirror ... less is more

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  37. I love the look of elegant brows -being almost eye-brow challenged.
    ie fair and few
    whenever some keen type who grabs me in the
    make up counter at Macy's gets hold of me and draws them in I scare myself.

    old men get horrible insect wavy brows
    YETCH
    not to mention ear and nose hair...........hmmmm

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  38. OMG!yes that's scary!

    I wish(I WANT)Madonna's!

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  39. Too funny and accurate..I myself have brows only seen by me..very light..Pale me, I look like an egg..but with the flick of the wrist and a blond pencil, I can opt for some expression!!

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  40. LOL.. i do think the brow can make or break a face.. so the pics really prove that point! funny...

    have a great week!
    -Tracie

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  41. Funny (but so true) post! I have pretty slim eyebrows but I know after I get them trimmed and waxed back into shape at the salon, I notice a difference right away: my face automatically looks fresher and prettier. :)

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  42. I never knew there were so many different designs in eyebrows!!

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  43. Back in high school, when brow tweezing was lauded by the magazines, I heard that if you tweezed too much or shaved them, they would never grow back. I don't have dark brows, in fact, not much at all. My dad had Andy Rooney brows. The barber would trim them! He's twist them upwards when he wanted to look evil/silly and we would laugh.

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  44. Hi! Willow,
    What a very interesting post!... very funny!...I agree with you, less is most definitely, best when it comes to eyebrows!...
    ...Wow! I didn't know that Betsy, is your younger sis!...I must admit that I had a "feeling" that you two were/are related. (But, I think when you, mentioned that Betsy's son is your nephew...that should have been a clue for me!...Duh!)

    Take care!
    DeeDee ;-D

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  45. BTW, one of your funnier, off the wall posting. Tip of the hat.

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  46. Funny enough, I have seen not a few boys plucking their eyebrows here (in Rome, I can't speak for the whole of Italy) and not all of them are gay. Strange fashion fad...

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  47. I totally loved this post. I can move my eyebrows up and down quite easily. And so can my daughter, but my son can't and my wife is unable to, too.

    On the subject of eyebrows and their diversity, have yo ever seen Jack Nicholson's? Devilish.

    Greetings from London.

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  48. I qouls love to be able to shape my brows into an arch like Marilyn Monroe however I don't have that natural line. I would have to shave them off a la Marlene Dietrich and start from scratch. Not good.

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  49. When I was a kid I thought my mother was Joan Crawford because of her eyebrows. Now that I'm an adult and have had years to deal with the way she treated me, I'm sure of it.

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  50. Oh isn't your blog always always wonderful? I can read so little on the computer before my eyes get tired that I feel lucky to have 'found' you.
    'Sunshine' looks a powerful movie - Ralph Fiennes is a terrifying actor, just so very brilliant and intense and absorbing. I watched such an awful film tonight it isn't even worth mentioning - choosing the right film is a skill!
    Shaista

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  51. My wife trims my eyebrows whenever cutting my hair. I guess if I didn't, I'd look like Donald Trump or Bobby Knight.

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  52. I have always loved my eyebrows so I just loved reading your post. That seinfeld clip was a hoot. Great way to start the day.

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― O. Henry (and me)