Saturday, May 28, 2011

we are who we were

peonies, my favorite flower, after the rain, Willow Manor, May 2011


Flowers really do intoxicate me.  

Vita Sackville-West

Have a safe and happy Memorial Day weekend, my friends.
  
Don't forget to visit the grave 
of a loved one and pay tribute; after all, 
we are who we were.


52 comments:

  1. in the Spring, my mother always talks about how they would gather arm fulls of peonies for the graves of lost loved ones in Hamilton, Ohio. It must be a midwest thing as no one (that I have seen) does it in NC.

    Beautiful photo.

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  2. I took an arm load of peonies to Carroll County, Indiana a few years ago, to place on my grandmother's grave. They were her favorite flower, as well.

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  3. Not a tradition here, Tess, but I will.

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  4. Gorgeous shot. We used to have these on the farm when I was a kid. Mom wouldn't let us bring them in because of the ants that they held.

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  5. I always bring a gigantic bunch in. Who cares about the ants?

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  6. What a pretty photo of the peony and the raindrops!

    My favorite flower as well, hands down!

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  7. Spectacular peony! A favorite of mine too.

    Have a wonderful Memorial Day too!

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  8. Will go June 3rd to Tony Curtis's grave and leave flowers on his birthday to celebrate his life and the wonderful cinematic memories...

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  9. I posted pics from my recent visit to a flower farm today, but none as beautiful as your photo, breathtaking.

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  10. Such a beautiful pic. and a wonderful post. May you have a happy happy one!

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  11. wow your peonies are open already
    must be a sign
    safe happy and thoughtful
    Memorial weekend
    enjoy being free

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  12. Every day has been a kind of memorial day for me, of late. It always feels important to me to hold close those who have passed before me. I have no peonies, will an iris or poppy do?

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  13. have a beauty filled weekend tess!

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  14. Ooh those have to be the most gorgeous flowers I've ever seen.
    They are bad about the blooms getting too heavy and then falling over, so I've learned to place the supports around them.
    Hope you have a wonderful weekend also !
    ~Jo

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  15. oh I love peonies!... your blog has been so lovely recently, sorry i've not had time to comment but I have read it lots!!!... have a wonderful weekend x

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  16. What a lovely tribute; that image is just beautiful.
    Thanks for helping us to remember.

    Happy Memorial Day, Tess!

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  17. A beautiful tribute to those we have lost....

    I adore Vita Sackville-West..she wrote some of my most beloved poems!

    Safe and lovely weekend dear Tess!
    I will be (where else) at SF Opera. "Siegfried" opens on Sunday!

    Hugs,

    ♥ Robin ♥

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  18. a beautiful photograph of a beautiful flower.

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  19. Hope you have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend too Tess!

    The peonies here are still in a tight bud....My granddaughter and I had a pleasant visit to my parents' and grandparents gravesites today bearing flags and geraniums....It was a gorgeous day!

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  20. Yes, if I ponder more what 'was', I'll know more about what 'is'.

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  21. My mother used to raise peonies. I love them.

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  22. i brought in a load of peonies early this week and placed them in a pitcher on my kitchen counter. love the fragrance, love the ants, as always, working overtime to peel back the blossoms.

    a few days later, i moved the bucket and watched in wonder as a cascade of silken petals fell on the granite counter. they were so lovely that i didn't move them for hours.

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  23. What a beautiful tribute to Memorial Day. And I have peonies on my blog today, too! They're my favorite flower as well, along with lilacs.

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  24. We go to a huge birthday bash tonight. Lady M bought 2 big bunches of pink peonies for the 80 year old.

    Mother's Day here tomorrow.

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  25. The peonies last too short a time but a the most beautiful flower,and I will visit my beloved Mr. Winky's grave and if I am who I was (oh god), I am doomed.

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  26. What a stunning peony - and always good to remember the ones who came before..

    It's taking me ages to catch up on weeks of lost blogging, but enjoying it as ever. Weekend greetings from over here!

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  27. Amen. I Visit my Parents Tommorrow.

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  28. Well said, as always, Tess.

    Peonies are the only flower I know of that look equally exquisite whether in bud or in bloom, in the garden or arranged in a vase, carefully arranged or dropped carelessly at the edge of the sink.

    With their sculptured leaves and ruffled petals, they have no equal in the world of flowers.

    Your photo is magnificent!

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  29. flowers always reminds me of life. how it blooms and then fade away and gone... best pic pic i saw... love it...

    happy memorial weekend!..

    JJRodz

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  30. Well said, and really lovely picture.

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  31. hello tess! peonies and roses and dandelions stun me with the fullness of their presence. have a lovely weekend. steven

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  32. Happy Holiday weekend to you too! Love the peony photo.

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  33. oh my, so beautiful. i hope i buy a house soon so i can plant peonies.

    i visited my parents grave last weekend and left flowers. not peonies however which sounds a lovely tradition although up here they would not be out yet.

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  34. Tess -- the peony is weeping for all those that gave their life. Although, today, Memorial Day is for all deceased loved ones -- it was originally for those that fought in our wars -- barbara

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  35. I do love peonies, too--beautiful, Tess. Have a relaxing Memorial Day weekend. A good time to remember those who gave so much for us all...

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  36. So beautiful Willow~
    And yes, lets all remember our loved ones & pay tribute.

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  37. got no graves 'round here to visit...but that's a good thing!

    have a good day

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  38. I left my "peonies" of thoughts in Barcelona.

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  39. A beautifully shot reminder to take the time... Have a wonderful MD weekend Tess.

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  40. Hope you have a safe and fun Memorial Day, too.

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  41. Exquisite photograph, Tess, brava!

    I hope you have a safe Memorial Day!

    I came across this poem - Gaspar's Ferry: End of Ohio Roads - and thought I'll share it with you.

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  42. a stunning image for sure,
    and even though you are
    bustling around with family
    and busy as the ants who
    inhabit the peonies, still
    you have the heart to remind
    us all that today we reach
    back, not just to our war dead,
    but to all the departed
    that live on within us,
    and they enjoy the feast
    of flowers like the rest of us.

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  43. May your Memorial Day be one of good memories, dear Tess.

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  44. we can't have the same fave flower too??!!

    xx

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  45. Nice peony. It looks like mine, wet and dropped over on the ground.

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  46. Peonies are such lovely flowers and yours, drenched with rain is exceptional.

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